Please help me choose!!!!?

Having a little girl soon and really need to get down to names, our top 3 are in this rank 1. Emelia, 2.Emily, 3.Amelia . We have decided on Jane as the middle name after her grandmother. I always loved Emily but prefer this spelling Emelie but so popular and kinda plain, Emelia has personality worried about spelling, Amelia is pretty but its not my favorite. So I really need help deciding whats important in deciding a name for my baby girl thanks.! ( I don't like this spelling of Emilia)